How To Overcome Anxiety About the Future
I want to touch on a topic that affects many of us: anxiety about the future. It’s something that resonates deeply with leaders, achievers, entrepreneurs, and anyone striving for bigger goals.
Let me address a common misconception here.
Often, we believe that controlling outcomes will alleviate our anxieties. However, true security doesn’t stem from external achievements alone. Sometimes it might feel great to achieve a goal but that’s an external result. We won’t feel great and happy at the end of those goals, unless we approach them from a completely different angle.
True security doesn’t stem from external achievements alone.
If we try to achieve these goals from an angle of fear, scarcity, or lack of security, then we’re setting ourselves up for disappointment. Because if we chase it from a misaligned place and it comes from “I have lack right now” then we will create outcomes that will demonstrate that back to us.
Remember, we create our reality from the inside, and our internal perceptions create our reality on the outside. So, if we chase goals and we never come from an aligned place, then we will find that we ticked off the goals, but never feel fulfilled from them. We’ll keep on chasing more goals to achieve them, to then hopefully finally feel happy, fulfilled, safe, and so on.
Money, status, or external validation can’t fill the void of self-doubt or insecurity.
Money, status, or external validation can’t fill the void of self-doubt or insecurity. True peace comes from within, from trusting ourselves and our capabilities.
We need to first look internally and see where we’re coming from. The issue around fear of lack of security is coming from the inside and that means an actual lack of trust in ourselves.
So, I invite you to reflect: Are you trusting yourself that you can get there? Are you trusting yourself that you can do whatever you put your mind to and that you will be able to get there? Are there underlying doubts or misconceptions holding you back? It’s crucial to address these internal struggles before seeking external validation.
If there is a self-doubt coming up or a fear or a hesitance around this, this might be due to a lack of trust in yourself or a potential lack of trust in others. It might also be misconceptions or lack of skills.
We need to check deeper here.
True peace comes from within, from trusting ourselves and our capabilities.
Generally, when I work with my clients, they know how to get to goals and tick them off. That’s usually not the issue. However, when it comes to scarcity, this feeling of fear and anxiety from within needs to be looked at internally.
We need to address the underlying fear, the underlying uncertainties, the underlying self-doubt, and the underlying disconnect from ourselves. From our purpose and our spirit and who we really are, in order to close that gap so we feel super certain and solid.
So we know that we CAN achieve whatever we put our mind to.
Whatever we are in alignment with.
We can then overcome those feelings.
Once we are deeply connected with ourselves, our limitless version and embodied, beyond our core trauma patterns, we’ll know we’re safe.
I believe in your potential and the impact you can make in this world. Let’s work together to overcome these barriers and unleash your full potential. Schedule a Heart-to-Heart Chat and let’s devise a strategy tailored to your journey.
Together we rise.
The time is now.